Boyfriend and roommate make triggering jokes and blame them on being in the military.

2021.12.05 19:21 Complex_Formal4723 Boyfriend and roommate make triggering jokes and blame them on being in the military.

A little back story. I (20f) and my boyfriend (27) have been together for 2 years. About 3 months ago he TOLD me he was moving his friend (27m)who he served with into our house. He moved in early October and I met him for the first time then. Before meeting my boyfriend I had a lot of trauma happened. Included being sexually assaulted at a young age. Which I was not comfortable Speaking about until years later. As well as being drugged by an ex boyfriend. A few months ago my boyfriend and I had gotten into a fight because he was upset I couldn’t drive myself to work (I don’t drive due to a Accident I was 16). He told me I was “helpless like a woman who had been rape and didn’t tell anyone”. At the time I hadn’t told him about my assault. Mostly because it doesn’t effect me in day to day life anymore but more. But as the fight continues I explain the whole situation. To which he reply’s “you’re a shitty person for not saying anything” It’s been brought up multiple times since in both therapy and fights. Now. Last night his friend (our roommate) was talking about how he wanted to go do acid. My boyfriend replied that he would like to go to but I wouldn’t allow it. Before me and my boyfriend got together I made it clear I’m not ok with drugs stronger then weed. I explained that I have no issue with people who do them but I won’t associate with it. They tried to agree their point with me and I wouldn’t budge. Our roommate thought it would be funny to tell me he was going to slip me acid. I didn’t say anything about it just went on with my day. Later my boyfriend asked me what was wrong as I seemed upset early. And I explained that what he said had made me uncomfortable. My boyfriend told me he would tell him not to say anything like that but that I shouldn’t be upset because he didn’t know and it’s normal for people in the military to joke like that. I understand that he didn’t know Which is why I didn’t say anything about it until my boyfriend asked me. However being In the military is not an excuse for say things like that to someone. Especially if you’ve only known them for three months. I went on to point out that he had made a similar comment (stated above) before and was clearly not joking. He tells me I feel like shit about myself and am making it out that everyone else does to. I don’t hate myself and haven’t in a really long time. He then goes on to say it’s not everyone elses fault that I have triggers and that it’s my job to tell people. Am I being to sensitive?
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2021.12.05 19:21 taykiller1212 i need help

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I would love to just be able to play warzone and fortnight reliability not on insane graphics but mid range what should I do I also wanna stream and have very low gear to start and recommendation for a mic headphones cam all under 200 for the stream stuff all together. also I would love to get new monitors but only wanna spend 120-200 on all of them wanna have 120 fps
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2021.12.05 19:21 PastelMermaid100 Am I (25) female the asshole for wanting to let my friend (27) female know that I don’t want to be friends with her boyfriend (26) male

Context before I start the story I have a friend group relevant to the story names will be changed for obvious reasons we’re all in our late to mid 20s I’ll be me female lily Friends will be Natalie Raymond Maria Daisy Mike Leo Cameron Luka and Andrew
I’m dating luka Natalie is dating Raymond Daisy is dating mike
Backstory in the past two years i haven’t had contact with Raymond for the fact I can’t see myself as friends but at the push of Natalie and Leo they wanted me to atleast reconsider it Daisy and mike had made it adamant they won’t be friends with Raymond at best they will be civil for Natalie’s sake. Maria understands my side but is remaining neutral Leo wishes things could be ok and we could all get along and wishes for things to go back to normal and Cameron is friends with Raymond but understands why I’m keeping distance. luka side with me for my well being even though I’ve told him it’s ok to be friends with since I won’t dictate who he talks to. Im honestly at my wits end since the last 2 years have been peaceful minus the whole pandemic going on you know but I digress Natalie and Leo have both been asking more since I ran into them at the mall with luka and Raymond had to hide. Leo I love him couldn’t read the room and asked me to join them to get some food. I declined the offer since I haven’t talked to Raymond in 1-2 years but been getting updates about him from Leo even when I didn’t ask about updates. Natalie later then asked me personally would I have even joined them I told her I don’t think the first time meeting up with someone who I haven’t had in contact would be good to do in a public setting since it wouldn’t be the best environment to do so. She then asked when I was gonna give Raymond a chance to know what he did wrong and fix his mistakes. It pissed me off because I have been made to feel as I was in the wrong when I’ve told Natalie before hand what Raymond does and say I can’t stand by it no more he’s hurt not only my feelings he’s made me uncomfortable and I can’t handle that no more. She has pushed the agenda onto me you have to get used to being uncomfortable like no I can choose who I let into my life. I’ve expressed to her I’ve given Raymond chances in the past to try to do things better but he won’t grow up. He crosses boundaries thinks it’s funny and hurts his so called friends even though we’re fake friends to him and won’t value the opinions of the female friends around him until a male friend will back us up. Natalie goes on about I know I skewed how you see him but he’s a changed person. To which left me to eventually talk to Daisy she was surprised they’re still bothering me with Raymond and is surprised Raymond doesn’t know what he did wrong . She has Reassured me I’m not in the wrong for not wanting to continue with a friendship where I don’t benefit from and isn’t healthy for me. Though how do I let Natalie and Leo know that I won’t ever be friends
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